It was quite a while before Michelle and I got together again. It was an hour and a quarter's drive to her neck of the woods. She didnt drive so we couldnt meet half way. With us both working it made things difficult too. We were in touch daily however and this is something that a lot of men would do well to make a note of.
Some of you guys out there have a tendency to lose interest once youve made a conquest. You're keen, attentive and charming with the ladies at first. Having bedded them, however, you completely ignore them. Youve got yourself laid, eased your frustrations and although you want to meet again sometime for a repeat performance you cease contact. You brainless fuckwits! Bet you wonder why, when you get in touch again weeks later, they tell you to go fuck yourself cos you certainly arent getting anything from them.
Most women like to feel wanted. A simple text saying "Hi. Thinking about you xxx" makes her feel good about herself. Desirable. Attractive. When you want to meet again she is raring to go. A simple text or email takes no effort really so get your acts together.
If you stop contacting her immediately after having had sex it makes her feel used, unwanted and cheap. Show some respect. God knows they deserve it if youve had a good time together. They deserve it anyway. I text and email my female acquaintances on a daily basis. Not in a cynical, manipulative way but because i do care about them and how they feel. It takes seconds to send a text but it can do a lot for you both. I know I love to receive texts from my girlfriends. It makes me feel wanted too.
Of course, if you cant be bothered to make the effort it gives guys like me a better chance so who am I to complain?
More about Michelle and our antics next time.
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You darling man! Why aren't you mine?????
ReplyDeleteVery well said, and well worth following. Well done xxxx
ReplyDeleteFound your blog via Leah's post - love love love this entry - it is so dead on. Initiating a simple text from time to time between meetings will do wonders for the things I want to do with him and for him next time we meet!
ReplyDeleteCripes, crikey and lawks a lawdy.
ReplyDeleteAfter posting this entry i reread it and thought it sounded a bit of a rant but it appears to have struck a chord.
And positive approval from the legendary Karen Marley. I feel like ive been knighted. Thank you ma'am.
Eight followers now. Thats seven more than i ever expected. Bless you all.
As a man, I agree with your comments completely!
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